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For my genting rendevous, pls check out www.berby.blogspot.com. This blog will be used for personal password coded posts that only me and kenji darling can read….. For my best friends like Rina, Lena and kerin, I still will not give you my password. Hiak Hiak Hiak. Only Dino Senior and Dino Junior knows Dino berby’s password. Kenji wun say one, so you can try Junior…. Maybe if you bring brandy to serangoon, junior might tell you….
July 13, 2007
On holiday
This is to inform you that The little princess in Me is away as of today friday 13th July 2007. Will be back on Mon 16th July 2007. Meanwhile if you miss ah ber, she is still contactable on her mobile phones – which one….. I will bring both…. so will still be contactable…. ONLY URGENT MATTERS ok….. If not urgent matters Lao niang come back surely FRY you……
Also, dun try to read Diva Nana, Kerin & Hannie Blog during this period as well, cos they will be up in the mountain with me….. if you miss them, call me and I will connect the call at $100 per call…… SGD ok…..
2 more hours my action will start…… 8pm now…. counting down…..
BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.
July 8, 2007
I am tired
Yesterday went to an ex-colleague (Susan)’s wedding dinner at Toa Payoh Fortunate Restaurant. Brought back memories of my own 4 years back cos she attended mine too and Ms Lena was also there.
Guess all brides are happy. Dun think there would be any unhappy brides around. Brides are at their most beautiful and most radiant and the best during their own wedding. Brides dun mind the hassle, they dun mind the stress, they dun mind the things to be done, they dun mind lots of things. They jus shine. They jus are happy. Its like a moment in a lifetime for them. Walking down the red carpet, walking down the aisle with the man they love, the man they vowed to be with in sickness or health, in fortune or poverty, in spite of anything….
Brides gamble heavily on this day. They use their lives as bet and put down their lives for a gamble of a lifetime. Whether they win or lose, its become part of their lives from that day when they say “I do”. If they win, they get a lifelong companion to grow old with, they get a soulmate, they get the man they love and the man who love them. If they lose, they lose everything.
Will things ever be the same again? Will things get better? I dunno. I cannot guarantee. When things wan to change, you cannot stop them. I wun try to stop also, cos everything else like time, like youth, like opportunites, are all still running. They wun stop for you.
Die, I feel like I have PMS – post menstrual syndrome… hahahahaha…….
I jus feel that if things are not meant for, jus let it go. Dun harp on it. Dun hold too long. Jus turn and walk away and let time heal the wounds. There might be scars, but let these scars be in you to remind you of the story you once shared. At least when you are reminded of the stories, you can smile…..
I wan to do lots of things but lots of things are also stopping me. Damn. I jus wish I was Kurosaki Ichigo in Bleach. Use the Zampaktou and slash all my troubles away like killing the hollows…… Fantasy DOES help ok……
Today I am so tired. Maybe yest I didnt sleep enough. I am so unwilling to nap now in the afternoon cos I am scared I will wake up after a few hours then I cannot sleep. I am scared of the dark. Cos I feel most alone in the dark. The dark scares me cos it always brings out the darkest in me…..
I wish time can jump and move to fri so that I can prepare to go sleep and wake up for my genting trip on sat. I am so excited. But at the same time I am restless…. Maybe too much excitement and having the excitement too early kills the fun….. well…… maybe I really have PMS and maybe I am jus tired…..
June 20, 2007
Will Sex add to commitment?
Will Sex add to commitment?
You may imagine that agreeing to have sex before you have a monogamous commitment from a man could lead to the commitment you seek. Wrong. If he gets to have sex with you before commitment, you lose some of your power to get him to commit. After all, why should he commit further if he’s already having sex with you?
Yes, you may answer, but with sexual intimacy he’ll fall for me even more. Wrong again. With sexual intimacy before commitment, all you know is that his cock is in love with your vagina. You are beautiful, feminine, and have a gorgeous, fully shaved vagina. Of course, he’s in love with your sexual organs! What man wouldn’t be? But you want his love for you to come before his love for your sexual organs.
By the way, “instant commitments” don’t count. If you’ve teased him to the point of nakedness or of being only an undergarment away from nakedness, and then ask him, “You do love me, don’t you?” do not be fooled by the answer “Of course I do.” That is his manhood talking. At this point his brain has been kidnapped by his throbbing manhood. All his brain blood now resides in his swollen enlarged one, and his is totally not in charge of what his mouth says. “Of course I love you” means “Of course I love your body.” If you let a “Good Man” have sex with you before commitment, you risk losing that “Good Man” because you were too easy; you weren’t selective or demanding enough.
Be patient. Get the commitment first. You need to have sex only with a committed “Good Man”.
It may take you several weeks or several months of dating a man to determine whether you want to have sex with him. This is not an unreasonable time frame for such an important decision. Again, it is totally appropriate to share your thoughts with a man regarding your qualifications of a “Good Man” and your fundamental needs. Also discuss how he sees your relationship, both now and in the future. If you decide that sex with this man is appropriate for you, then mutually commit to monogamy and go for it. If he is unwilling to commit to monogamy, do not agree to have sex with him.
One last thing to add. Women also want to have great sex. Most men don’t know this so if you like the guy that much and you want to enjoy time with that guy sexually then go for it. Just remember that if there is no commitment from it later then you know it was your fault. So if that’s what you decide then you won’t feel let down later.
Bar advice. ladies take some time if you feel that he’s the Mr. Right. Guys be patient with her because she deserves respect. – Adapted from Bar Advice…
