My new job 230606

Think I wun need my previous post myself….cos I jus resigned and my last day will be end of the mth.

I found a new job that I am really good at…..for everday 24hours I will be at bradel. My new job is to irritate my mummy rina, jus like one of her kids….and play wrestling with my god-sons….and bring junior to interact with his friend Tiger…..my pay will be breakfast, lunch, dinner, tea-time and supper included…..come with muffins, cookies, ribena, yakult and many more delicious things that mummy cook.

I think this is the best job ever…..wuv you mummy.

I still got to find a proper job la….I’ve got a son now….I got to put food in his bowl….I cant jus send him away on maggie mee or bread (actually he can eat bread la….but not good for him lah). Cos I love him too much……

I wan to find a job with a good boss that appreciate me……cos my current boss not supportive of me. Some old chinese thinking la…..anyway I dun owe him, he dun owe me….so i jus quit lor….but i’m more relieved than upset lor…..one of those stupid jobs that you dun get satisfaction, no sense of achievement, no motivation, only get more depressed and demotivated day by day…..why wan to live like tat….not happy than quit lor……even though i have debts and burdens, but i believe that i will not starve….maybe i wun get enough to eat….but i wun starve….i will still make sure junior gets his treats and food and everything best for him…..i tot of getting him a doggie football jersey that i read from the newspapers….dunno which team to get….maybe……??????heehee

7 ways to reduce stress at work 230606

Here are seven ways you can get your workload under control:

1. Work on things that are important. This may sound obvious, but many of us are tempted to work on easy tasks first so we can have a sense of accomplishment. Time spent on those “easy” tasks can quickly add up, creating even more stress when there does not appear to be enough time left for the important work.

2. Keep an “activity log.” This will help you figure out what your time is being spent on. Every time you start and end a new activity, including taking a break, make note of the time. Most workers who charge by the hour have learned to do this automatically. If you are not used to tracking your time it may be a bit of an adjustment, but within a few days you should be able to notice any time-wasters you might not have been aware of.

3. Set daily goals. When scheduling your time, assume that something unexpected will come up and build in a cushion of time to deal with it. To minimize the stress of meeting self-imposed deadlines, avoid making promises about when tasks will be completed. If you must commit to a date, be conservative. If you consistently underpromise and overdeliver you could earn a great reputation while reducing your stress.

4. Be gentle with yourself. Aim to meet or even exceed expectations, but don’t try to achieve perfection. Wherever possible, delegate routine tasks, even if you think you can do them better than someone else.

5. Avoid interruptions. Unless you are expected to be on call, select a time of day when you will return phone calls and e-mails. During other times, let your voice mail take messages for you. You can also create an auto reply for your e-mail to let people know their message has been received. If your e-mail says you will respond within 24 hours if a reply is required, it may deter someone from repeatedly trying to contact you in the meantime.

6. Don’t let other people’s problems become yours. As Richard Carlson, author of Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff at Work, says “If someone throws you the ball you don’t have to catch it.” When someone comes to you with a problem that isn’t yours, try limiting your contribution to advice instead of taking on the task yourself.

7. When you are feeling overwhelmed, say so. Companies want to keep good employees, so most bosses will want to know when you are having difficulty. However, instead of saying “I can’t do it,” offer some possible solutions. For example, if you won’t be able to get a major report completed by a particular deadline, you might tell the boss you can either: (1) complete a condensed version by the deadline, (2) complete the entire report by a later date, or (3) meet the deadline if you get some help from co-workers or temporary staff. These techniques probably won’t help you enjoy the life of leisure envisioned by those early futurists. But they can make your work more manageable, and might even reduce your stress enough to let you go back to drinking double lattes.

Where are you, the old ber???? 210606

I used to think very highly of myself. Last time amongst my friends I used to think I am capable, I am loyal, I am faithful, I am good hearted, i am nice, I am good lor…..not the best but jus good lor.

After 26years of my life today i jus asked a close friend what people think of me. Cos I HAVE NO IDEA. Today I jus quitted my job. Its not a good feeling. I feel depressed cos I feel like i’m useless lor.

I dunno what’s wrong with me. I dunno since when I become so NO CONFIDENCE. I dunno since when I start to suspect this, suspect that. I dunno when I become so defensive of myself. I am no longer the naive me that was in the past. I feel I cannot handle the future. The future seems so bleak.

WAT IS WRONG WITH ME? I know i think too highly of myself. There are many things I cannot handle yet I thick skin go and try. I DEMAND THAT THE OLD BER COME BACK. Where are you ber? The nice and kind ber. The one who is always so nice, to others, to yourself.

How i wish I can go back to the past where I dun need to think so much. And dun have so many things to handle, dun have so many responsibilities. Have the same naive thinking that things will be fine, God will help you, dun worry so much.

Yes God will help me. But certain things I have to face.

Today I scolded myself for thinking so highly of myself. Now I worry if the people ard me really know who I am or not. And what kind of impression I give them. Actually I am no good lor. I dun deserve friends actually cos I am really no good lor.

I am going to do jus paperwork. I think paper wun bite me hor. But even if paper bites me then bo bian la. I’m jus not good enough for anything, anyone.

Why my friends all meet break ups? 130606

My dear friend anna is heartbroken cos she jus split up with her bf of 8years. WTF – after 8 years then he tell her that she is not the one. She loved him alot. Yesterday I met up with anna at Bliss Cafe at punggol park. Can tell she’s badly affected by tat jerk.

Well, its like tat lor….people do change and love becomes from super sweet to super hell where you hurt like hell….talked to her for a few hours, she looked ok, she tells me she feels better but I’m not too sure lor…..hope she can be strong.

Sometimes its not quantity of time you spend with tat special someone but the quality of time spent with them. The more quality time you spend, the more deep you are involved in the r/s. But you MUST learn to let go cos the more you hold on, the more bitter you get inside you and I dun think you wan to be such a bittergourd rite…..although I dun mind eating bittergourd – I CAN EAT YOU….hahahahahaha…..

And Glenn, you must stop be such a damn asshole. Stop whinning like everyone owe you ok….I dun owe you anything so you better wake up your idea. Stop complaining like a faggot. She changed her heart, you cant stop her from doing tat. Even if she’s pregnant now with the other guy’s baby, wat can you do? I know you are damn Chi Xin (devoted) to her. I know you dun mind the baby. And I know that it hurts you cos you have been so nice to her and you love her alot. But there are MANY TREES out there lor. I dun owe you anything, so far when you need me I am there for you, but you can’t continue whinning for like almost half a year already……how much longer you wan life to be like this????? I got my own life too lor….last time when you were with her, you spend all your time with her, we also dun go out often, I also didn’t complain. When you broke up with her I readily spend all my time with you. I am already a good friend lor, I already done wat I can do to make you feel better. I already done my part. But instead of appreciating me for the things I have done for you the past months, you TOTALLY forgot lor….Jus cos I gave you some advice a friend would give you, you turn your face. Dun take me for granted hor….dun give me tat kind of fucked-up attitude….I DUN OWE YOU ANYTHING. Sianz….a guy also can have such serious PMS. F U la.

FRIENDS AND FRIENDSHIP – THE BOND 130606

I have finally seen wat a true friend(s) is. Not all are worthy to carry such a title. Some are not even worthy to be labelled as a friend.

I’m talking about Kenji dear’s band of brothers (BOB) who is worthy of my admiration. For the months I have been with him, he didn’t go out with them much. But when he needed their help, they all rally ard him with no questions asked. Same goes to any member of BOB – whenever anyone needed some help they will all rally ard them without any questions.

They dun ask “Why you so busy?”, “Why you so long bo jio?” They only ask wat is it that they can do to help. Some “friends” dun give but expect to receive. This BOB is something that gives and dun ask to receive -that is called friends. They dun ignore kenji jus cos he didn’t contact them for months….they still regard him as part of the BOB.

Jus like my dearest mummy rina. Last time during my difficult moments she never fails to give me encouragement. And when I can’t get out of the cage to visit her as often as I wan to, she waits for me, waits for the day I can visit them. And she never fails to open her arms no matter wat I did. And the day I finally visit, we enjoy our time together. This already surpasses friendship. Its part of wat family does for you. I know I can depend on her when I am ard and I know that if I am not ard, she is still there, giving me encouragement and support. She doesn’t turn me away jus cos I didn’t visit or see them for ages.

That is friendship. In friendship you dun give up your friends so easily. You try your best for your friend and you try your best for your friendship – the bond between both of you. Even when I’m having a bad day, when she calls, I talk to her nicely cos I dun take her for granted. And when she’s having a bad day and I can’t visit, she grumbles on the phone and I listen. That is friends. And I never regret having friends like tat. And I’m proud to be part of the family – the devadason family and part of the FAT TIGERS SQUAD – created by BOB. I’m gonna be one of the FAT tigeress soon…..hahahahahaa…..getting fatter leh…..help.

This weekend I’m going KL again…..dun envy ok…..I jus kapo and backside itchy wan to take bus ride ok….heehee….going to meet my kenji dear there…..he’s driving up with his cousin-in-law on thurs…then I take bus on sat morn to join him there……heehee….

FRIENDS AND FRIENDSHIP – THE BOND 130606

I have finally seen wat a true friend(s) is. Not all are worthy to carry such a title. Some are not even worthy to be labelled as a friend.

I’m talking about Kenji dear’s band of brothers (BOB) who is worthy of my admiration. For the months I have been with him, he didn’t go out with them much. But when he needed their help, they all rally ard him with no questions asked. Same goes to any member of BOB – whenever anyone needed some help they will all rally ard them without any questions.

They dun ask “Why you so busy?”, “Why you so long bo jio?” They only ask wat is it that they can do to help. Some “friends” dun give but expect to receive. This BOB is something that gives and dun ask to receive -that is called friends. They dun ignore kenji jus cos he didn’t contact them for months….they still regard him as part of the BOB.

Jus like my dearest mummy rina. Last time during my difficult moments she never fails to give me encouragement. And when I can’t get out of the cage to visit her as often as I wan to, she waits for me, waits for the day I can visit them. And she never fails to open her arms no matter wat I did. And the day I finally visit, we enjoy our time together. This already surpasses friendship. Its part of wat family does for you. I know I can depend on her when I am ard and I know that if I am not ard, she is still there, giving me encouragement and support. She doesn’t turn me away jus cos I didn’t visit or see them for ages.

That is friendship. In friendship you dun give up your friends so easily. You try your best for your friend and you try your best for your friendship – the bond between both of you. Even when I’m having a bad day, when she calls, I talk to her nicely cos I dun take her for granted. And when she’s having a bad day and I can’t visit, she grumbles on the phone and I listen. That is friends. And I never regret having friends like tat. And I’m proud to be part of the family – the devadason family and part of the FAT TIGERS SQUAD – created by BOB. I’m gonna be one of the FAT tigeress soon…..hahahahahaa…..getting fatter leh…..help.

This weekend I’m going KL again…..dun envy ok…..I jus kapo and backside itchy wan to take bus ride ok….heehee….going to meet my kenji dear there…..he’s driving up with his cousin-in-law on thurs…then I take bus on sat morn to join him there……heehee….

Career ups and downs…090606

I am not happy. My boss is an impatient man. And he gets irritated very easily. When you do something wrong, he will pick out other things and say you. And he raises his voice and give me that fed-up tone.

And I dun take it lying down. I talked back and explained….and he complain that I am rude, tat I talk back to him. He told my manager he try to teach me or tell me something I like not happy like tat.

Of cos I’m not happy when you “teach” me in tat kind of tone. And I’m not happy when you get impatient with me when I keep trying my best. And I am not happy when you grumble when I am really trying.

I am demoralised. I like my job, but I dun like the damn boss. Being boss doesn’t mean you can raise your voice at me and give me tat kind of fed-up tone like I owe you. I dun owe you. You pay me I work for you, I settle issues for you, I try my best, I put in my best effort and concentration at work and time…..dun treat me like tat.

Best thing is, I dun have contract with the company lor. SO I CAN QUIT 24hours. But I’m staying on cos of my manager. He and my kenji dear are good friends lor. And Kenji dear intro me to this job one…..so I dun wan to do things till it become ugly. BUT I AM NOT HAPPY.

And I still got bills to pay….so I’m looking for another job – tat’s confirmed….but when I leave….its still pending….very very sian…..

The work dun stress me, its jus the stupid boss….attitude got problem. By the way, I think I got problems with hainanese people…..Wai was hainanese, this company majority also hainanese…not “Gam” (compatible) with hainanese I think……Any hainanese friends out there wan to prove me wrong????? heehee.

I’m not young anymore….I jus wan to build my career….God help me pls….

The only things I will miss at Everwide is MY NISSAN MARCH. And my titbit shop and the drinks stall…..tat’s all….And I will miss stefanie who is the light in the company….think if I leave she also dun wan to work liao…..sigh…..

Career ups and downs…090606

I am not happy. My boss is an impatient man. And he gets irritated very easily. When you do something wrong, he will pick out other things and say you. And he raises his voice and give me that fed-up tone.

And I dun take it lying down. I talked back and explained….and he complain that I am rude, tat I talk back to him. He told my manager he try to teach me or tell me something I like not happy like tat.

Of cos I’m not happy when you “teach” me in tat kind of tone. And I’m not happy when you get impatient with me when I keep trying my best. And I am not happy when you grumble when I am really trying.

I am demoralised. I like my job, but I dun like the damn boss. Being boss doesn’t mean you can raise your voice at me and give me tat kind of fed-up tone like I owe you. I dun owe you. You pay me I work for you, I settle issues for you, I try my best, I put in my best effort and concentration at work and time…..dun treat me like tat.

Best thing is, I dun have contract with the company lor. SO I CAN QUIT 24hours. But I’m staying on cos of my manager. He and my kenji dear are good friends lor. And Kenji dear intro me to this job one…..so I dun wan to do things till it become ugly. BUT I AM NOT HAPPY.

And I still got bills to pay….so I’m looking for another job – tat’s confirmed….but when I leave….its still pending….very very sian…..

The work dun stress me, its jus the stupid boss….attitude got problem. By the way, I think I got problems with hainanese people…..Wai was hainanese, this company majority also hainanese…not “Gam” (compatible) with hainanese I think……Any hainanese friends out there wan to prove me wrong????? heehee.

I’m not young anymore….I jus wan to build my career….God help me pls….

The only things I will miss at Everwide is MY NISSAN MARCH. And my titbit shop and the drinks stall…..tat’s all….And I will miss stefanie who is the light in the company….think if I leave she also dun wan to work liao…..sigh…..

My schedule 070606

Ok, Ok….admit….been really busy these couple of weeks…..cos met up with my friends for dinner. Seems like 7days not enough to use hor…..

Sorry to the people whom I have neglected…..I already try my best to prioritize……For now its my darling kenji dear who is priority…..then my son…..then a long long queue…..wow….I’m so popular….heehee….

For the next 3 wednesdays I will not be free cos I’m going for Insurance course. Cos soon I think I maybe wan to “POK” (fire) my boss liao so need to get something else….so insurance came to me as a sideline…..since I’m not too young already, I need to build up my resources so tat I can retire early and be rich…..

Wednesdays are fully booked with Mahjong at eunos, Fridays are fully booked for clubbing and bradel. Mondays, tuesdays, thursdays are normally for dinner and entertainment (can book me….got slot). Sat is my God-son day, Sunday is my SON’s day together with my family day (Dino Senior, Dinor Junior, me, Dino Junior’s Godma and his gf coco and his lover brandy)

So now you know my schedule ok…..better book me before I become too busy……

I decided to get married on 090909…..very nice rite…..heehee….

My schedule 070606

Ok, Ok….admit….been really busy these couple of weeks…..cos met up with my friends for dinner. Seems like 7days not enough to use hor…..

Sorry to the people whom I have neglected…..I already try my best to prioritize……For now its my darling kenji dear who is priority…..then my son…..then a long long queue…..wow….I’m so popular….heehee….

For the next 3 wednesdays I will not be free cos I’m going for Insurance course. Cos soon I think I maybe wan to “POK” (fire) my boss liao so need to get something else….so insurance came to me as a sideline…..since I’m not too young already, I need to build up my resources so tat I can retire early and be rich…..

Wednesdays are fully booked with Mahjong at eunos, Fridays are fully booked for clubbing and bradel. Mondays, tuesdays, thursdays are normally for dinner and entertainment (can book me….got slot). Sat is my God-son day, Sunday is my SON’s day together with my family day (Dino Senior, Dinor Junior, me, Dino Junior’s Godma and his gf coco and his lover brandy)

So now you know my schedule ok…..better book me before I become too busy……

I decided to get married on 090909…..very nice rite…..heehee….